ugly .

what constitutes ugly?

If I had a penny for the amount of times Ive heard males calling females (including myself) 'butters' or 'ugly'...whether it be because she rejected him or hes just got spite in his heart...WHAT IS UGLY? This is something thats been playing in my mind for a while now...cos Ive seen females of all different walks of life, shapes & sizes being called 'ugly' and no-ones ever clarified shit up for me. I understand the literal meaning, it means unattractive...but what constitutes being unattractive? whos idea of unattractive? your idea of unattractive? because everyones unattractive is different. So how can you label someone as "ugly" without putting "in my opinion" or "i think" in front of it...because just because you think someone is ugly, it doesnt shove them into the world's 'ugly' box. Its only YOUR opinion.
And another thing,
Dont you realize by calling someone ugly out of embarassment, or just out of the plain and simple spite in your heart makes you look uglier than them? Small people try and make people smaller than them. You're not some sort of higher deity to be telling people what they are and what they aren't. If Im ugly, you're ugly, straight. DONT THROW STONES WHEN YOU LIVE IN A GLASS HOUSE BREDRIN.

Ive always been taught theres nothing more attractive than an attractive personality. Looks do count for something, come on now, but I cant see myself being involved with anyone if he was a complete bastard but he was the nicest thing ive ever clapped eyes on. Thats shallow. Fuck someone ugly inside. With the exception of surgery, people can only control what they look like to an extent. Its all genetic, but a personality can be modified, and thats within our control. Everyone can change inside, but only so much on the outside. Personally, it would cut me much deeper to be called a nasty person than unattractive.

ANYWAY thats my rant over I just got a bit tired of watching the same old shit happen to innocent people who have no control over what happens in the womb. Besitos