allowing it

Isn't it funny how we seem to forget that in life, we always get out what we put in. Us humans like to blame others for our wrongdoings, when we either made stuff happen, or allowed it to happen. As of late I've come to the realization that we really do create our own fate. Every action has a reaction.

In the past I've sold myself short, and BELIEVED I was incapable of doing things other people could do. I was always concentrating on the glass being half empty. Its only now, maybe because Im at an age where Im growing mentally, Im questioning myself. Im asking myself why Im thinking like this. Why cant I believe in myself? Why can I not do the things other people are doing? By questioning myself, I was able to turn my thinking patterns around. Instead of thinking Ill never be able to do that, I think I'm just as good as them, they're only humans, if they can do it so can I, nobodys superior to anybody. And by using this method of thinking Ive not only improved my mindset, Ive accomplished a lot more than I thought I would. No word of a lie.
Postive thinking can do so much. Ive found confidence I never knew I had, and Im more motivated than I ever was. Ive now realized I was the only one stopping ME, no-one else. We truly are our own worst enemies. Having the wrong mindset is responsible for a lot of the negative occurences in our lives. A negative thinking strategy can allow us to sell ourselves short, have low self-esteem, and low confidence so we're constantly settling for less than we deserve. Our brains are like babies, we train them and train them until they do what we want by themselves (develop mindsets) so we eventually BELIEVE we can or cant achieve. By telling ourselves we cant do things, we limit OURSELVES, and then we wonder why we arent constantly accomplishing new things? Because we dont allow it. We back away when things look "too difficult" because we believe we will never accomplish the goal. When if we believed in ourselves, and tried to our best ability, chances are it would work. Why not, youre just as good as the next HUMAN BEING.


Im constantly frustrated by people believing others telling them they cant do shit. Half the time, those people telling you you cant do certain things is because theyre fearful you'll do it better than them, or they just dont want you to do it and see your own potential. Its just now Ive learnt not to listen to people trying to inform me of my own threshold, because people are jealous characters. Not always, but when they belittle you, its usually the case.

well I just wanted to share my little life lesson with you, I hope you learned something! LMAO

PS...I need some help with my layout or w/e its called...to be frank im shit with computers much less HTML and I need to get hooked up! If anyone knows any layout sites that might make my page look half decent let me know!