what constitutes ugly?
If I had a penny for the amount of times Ive heard males calling females (including myself) 'butters' or 'ugly'...whether it be because she rejected him or hes just got spite in his heart...WHAT IS UGLY? This is something thats been playing in my mind for a while now...cos Ive seen females of all different walks of life, shapes & sizes being called 'ugly' and no-ones ever clarified shit up for me. I understand the literal meaning, it means unattractive...but what constitutes being unattractive? whos idea of unattractive? your idea of unattractive? because everyones unattractive is different. So how can you label someone as "ugly" without putting "in my opinion" or "i think" in front of it...because just because you think someone is ugly, it doesnt shove them into the world's 'ugly' box. Its only YOUR opinion.
And another thing,
Dont you realize by calling someone ugly out of embarassment, or just out of the plain and simple spite in your heart makes you look uglier than them? Small people try and make people smaller than them. You're not some sort of higher deity to be telling people what they are and what they aren't. If Im ugly, you're ugly, straight. DONT THROW STONES WHEN YOU LIVE IN A GLASS HOUSE BREDRIN.
Ive always been taught theres nothing more attractive than an attractive personality. Looks do count for something, come on now, but I cant see myself being involved with anyone if he was a complete bastard but he was the nicest thing ive ever clapped eyes on. Thats shallow. Fuck someone ugly inside. With the exception of surgery, people can only control what they look like to an extent. Its all genetic, but a personality can be modified, and thats within our control. Everyone can change inside, but only so much on the outside. Personally, it would cut me much deeper to be called a nasty person than unattractive.
ANYWAY thats my rant over I just got a bit tired of watching the same old shit happen to innocent people who have no control over what happens in the womb. Besitos
Friday, 8 May 2009
Monday, 4 May 2009
selfish people
i am SICK SICK SICK of helping people and getting nothing back.
I dont ask people for ANYTHING, cos I was always taught to only be dependent on myself. From a young age it was inscribed into my head that I would feel a deeper satisfaction doing stuff for MYSELF rather than being assisted. I dont like to rely on people. Yeah, some people get offended when I dont let them pay for me n that but thats just the sort of person I am. Anyone who knows me properly would know this.
BUT
when I NEED something done, that Im unable to do myself, what other choice do I have? I cant do it myself and someone close to me can, so why should I not seek help? I expected to be helped anyway, since Ive helped this individual out of certain predicaments. I needed something, they saw how much I needed it, yet they chose to be SELFISH. There was no reason for them not to do me this small favour...they werent busy or anything...they just didnt want to do it. The one time in YEARS when I ask for something off someone, much less someone Ive helped on numerous occasions, and they cant even deliver. SELFISH. I swear, I dont give to receive. I like to help people, no shit. But Im taking this as a lesson....When Im in NEED of something...Im not gonna possess certain traits that werent in me in the first place...like being reliant. Im just gonna carry on being independent and doing shit for myself without nobodys helping hand; however hard that may be. Because people dont know how to empathize and put themselves in MY position...ive always found that helps when Im being selfish...but I guess not everyone is able to do that. I swear...some people need to come down a few pegs cos theyre too up their own arses.
Ah well; shit happens.
Im finished now :)
I dont ask people for ANYTHING, cos I was always taught to only be dependent on myself. From a young age it was inscribed into my head that I would feel a deeper satisfaction doing stuff for MYSELF rather than being assisted. I dont like to rely on people. Yeah, some people get offended when I dont let them pay for me n that but thats just the sort of person I am. Anyone who knows me properly would know this.
BUT
when I NEED something done, that Im unable to do myself, what other choice do I have? I cant do it myself and someone close to me can, so why should I not seek help? I expected to be helped anyway, since Ive helped this individual out of certain predicaments. I needed something, they saw how much I needed it, yet they chose to be SELFISH. There was no reason for them not to do me this small favour...they werent busy or anything...they just didnt want to do it. The one time in YEARS when I ask for something off someone, much less someone Ive helped on numerous occasions, and they cant even deliver. SELFISH. I swear, I dont give to receive. I like to help people, no shit. But Im taking this as a lesson....When Im in NEED of something...Im not gonna possess certain traits that werent in me in the first place...like being reliant. Im just gonna carry on being independent and doing shit for myself without nobodys helping hand; however hard that may be. Because people dont know how to empathize and put themselves in MY position...ive always found that helps when Im being selfish...but I guess not everyone is able to do that. I swear...some people need to come down a few pegs cos theyre too up their own arses.
Ah well; shit happens.
Im finished now :)
Friday, 10 April 2009
Thursday, 9 April 2009
allowing it
Isn't it funny how we seem to forget that in life, we always get out what we put in. Us humans like to blame others for our wrongdoings, when we either made stuff happen, or allowed it to happen. As of late I've come to the realization that we really do create our own fate. Every action has a reaction.
In the past I've sold myself short, and BELIEVED I was incapable of doing things other people could do. I was always concentrating on the glass being half empty. Its only now, maybe because Im at an age where Im growing mentally, Im questioning myself. Im asking myself why Im thinking like this. Why cant I believe in myself? Why can I not do the things other people are doing? By questioning myself, I was able to turn my thinking patterns around. Instead of thinking Ill never be able to do that, I think I'm just as good as them, they're only humans, if they can do it so can I, nobodys superior to anybody. And by using this method of thinking Ive not only improved my mindset, Ive accomplished a lot more than I thought I would. No word of a lie.
Postive thinking can do so much. Ive found confidence I never knew I had, and Im more motivated than I ever was. Ive now realized I was the only one stopping ME, no-one else. We truly are our own worst enemies. Having the wrong mindset is responsible for a lot of the negative occurences in our lives. A negative thinking strategy can allow us to sell ourselves short, have low self-esteem, and low confidence so we're constantly settling for less than we deserve. Our brains are like babies, we train them and train them until they do what we want by themselves (develop mindsets) so we eventually BELIEVE we can or cant achieve. By telling ourselves we cant do things, we limit OURSELVES, and then we wonder why we arent constantly accomplishing new things? Because we dont allow it. We back away when things look "too difficult" because we believe we will never accomplish the goal. When if we believed in ourselves, and tried to our best ability, chances are it would work. Why not, youre just as good as the next HUMAN BEING.
Im constantly frustrated by people believing others telling them they cant do shit. Half the time, those people telling you you cant do certain things is because theyre fearful you'll do it better than them, or they just dont want you to do it and see your own potential. Its just now Ive learnt not to listen to people trying to inform me of my own threshold, because people are jealous characters. Not always, but when they belittle you, its usually the case.
well I just wanted to share my little life lesson with you, I hope you learned something! LMAO
In the past I've sold myself short, and BELIEVED I was incapable of doing things other people could do. I was always concentrating on the glass being half empty. Its only now, maybe because Im at an age where Im growing mentally, Im questioning myself. Im asking myself why Im thinking like this. Why cant I believe in myself? Why can I not do the things other people are doing? By questioning myself, I was able to turn my thinking patterns around. Instead of thinking Ill never be able to do that, I think I'm just as good as them, they're only humans, if they can do it so can I, nobodys superior to anybody. And by using this method of thinking Ive not only improved my mindset, Ive accomplished a lot more than I thought I would. No word of a lie.
Postive thinking can do so much. Ive found confidence I never knew I had, and Im more motivated than I ever was. Ive now realized I was the only one stopping ME, no-one else. We truly are our own worst enemies. Having the wrong mindset is responsible for a lot of the negative occurences in our lives. A negative thinking strategy can allow us to sell ourselves short, have low self-esteem, and low confidence so we're constantly settling for less than we deserve. Our brains are like babies, we train them and train them until they do what we want by themselves (develop mindsets) so we eventually BELIEVE we can or cant achieve. By telling ourselves we cant do things, we limit OURSELVES, and then we wonder why we arent constantly accomplishing new things? Because we dont allow it. We back away when things look "too difficult" because we believe we will never accomplish the goal. When if we believed in ourselves, and tried to our best ability, chances are it would work. Why not, youre just as good as the next HUMAN BEING.
Im constantly frustrated by people believing others telling them they cant do shit. Half the time, those people telling you you cant do certain things is because theyre fearful you'll do it better than them, or they just dont want you to do it and see your own potential. Its just now Ive learnt not to listen to people trying to inform me of my own threshold, because people are jealous characters. Not always, but when they belittle you, its usually the case.
well I just wanted to share my little life lesson with you, I hope you learned something! LMAO
PS...I need some help with my layout or w/e its called...to be frank im shit with computers much less HTML and I need to get hooked up! If anyone knows any layout sites that might make my page look half decent let me know!
Wednesday, 8 April 2009
howdy
greetings + salutations,
welcome to my new blog! :)
yeah so I had to stop using my old URL because of females perpetrating a fraud. I find it really psycho and weird that people would go so far as to copy parts of a blog post. Its just words, and everything I write relates to me, my feelings, and my experiences so I don't know how copying what I write benefits other people when it probably doesn't even relate to them. Not to mention its scary.
The funniest thing is, the female in question has accused ME of copying HER before, because last year she made an alias, and I made one too. I admit, my idea stemmed from hers, but I didn't COPY her, I was inspired, I took her idea and twisted it to make it my own!! I thought what she done was a good idea, but I made my alias, MINE. My psydoneum was NOTHING LIKE HERS, she just gave me the idea.
Anyway, words were exchanged and I ended up making sure she couldn't see what I was doing online anymore, because there was no need for her to have access, since we don't get along. Then my best friend tells me this girl's MSN name is packed up with quotes and titles from my blogs. Word for word too. THATS copying. I DO NOT KNOW how she got hold of the URL of my last blog, but she did.
As an educated individual, that worries me. It worries me because the only networking profile I own is my Facebook page, because the privacy on Facebook is the best Ive seen from any networking site. Facebook is designed to help people keep in touch with people they know, and it provides me with the ability to be picky about who I accept and decline. So, the people with access to my Facebook page are only people I know offline, people I get along with, who wouldn't go out of their way to camp out and take notes on my blogs lmao. When I first made my blog, I left the URL in my status bar on Facebook so all of my contacts could see. The only way possible for her to have access to my blog is by finding a mutual friends password and scanning my statuses. Scary shit.
It didn't take me long to realize the accusations she was holding against me "copying her" was really her conscience talking. For someone thats so "original", shes got a funny way of showing it.
So now, I've made my online activity even more secure by only giving out this blog URL to certain people, because the last thing I need is individuals stealing my opinions and making it their own LMAO....saaaaaad bitches.
WOW thats enough of me waffling on. Just some closure for you intrusive people to find out why I didn't keep my old one. LOL. so yeah... new blog..thats all
Til next time
x
welcome to my new blog! :)
yeah so I had to stop using my old URL because of females perpetrating a fraud. I find it really psycho and weird that people would go so far as to copy parts of a blog post. Its just words, and everything I write relates to me, my feelings, and my experiences so I don't know how copying what I write benefits other people when it probably doesn't even relate to them. Not to mention its scary.
The funniest thing is, the female in question has accused ME of copying HER before, because last year she made an alias, and I made one too. I admit, my idea stemmed from hers, but I didn't COPY her, I was inspired, I took her idea and twisted it to make it my own!! I thought what she done was a good idea, but I made my alias, MINE. My psydoneum was NOTHING LIKE HERS, she just gave me the idea.
Anyway, words were exchanged and I ended up making sure she couldn't see what I was doing online anymore, because there was no need for her to have access, since we don't get along. Then my best friend tells me this girl's MSN name is packed up with quotes and titles from my blogs. Word for word too. THATS copying. I DO NOT KNOW how she got hold of the URL of my last blog, but she did.
As an educated individual, that worries me. It worries me because the only networking profile I own is my Facebook page, because the privacy on Facebook is the best Ive seen from any networking site. Facebook is designed to help people keep in touch with people they know, and it provides me with the ability to be picky about who I accept and decline. So, the people with access to my Facebook page are only people I know offline, people I get along with, who wouldn't go out of their way to camp out and take notes on my blogs lmao. When I first made my blog, I left the URL in my status bar on Facebook so all of my contacts could see. The only way possible for her to have access to my blog is by finding a mutual friends password and scanning my statuses. Scary shit.
It didn't take me long to realize the accusations she was holding against me "copying her" was really her conscience talking. For someone thats so "original", shes got a funny way of showing it.
So now, I've made my online activity even more secure by only giving out this blog URL to certain people, because the last thing I need is individuals stealing my opinions and making it their own LMAO....saaaaaad bitches.
WOW thats enough of me waffling on. Just some closure for you intrusive people to find out why I didn't keep my old one. LOL. so yeah... new blog..thats all
Til next time
x
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